Give them time as long as she’s not actively attacking him she will warm up to him. She may not love him like your other dog but she will tolerate him and like him in spots.
That was our experience when we got a 2nd dog 10 years after our first. The older dog tolerated the young pup, but never really became good friends. The age difference is a big factor. Young puppies have a lot more energy than a 10+ year old dog. They are just at different places in life. I saw that Luna had her tail between her legs in the photo. That is a sign of insecurity. But she should warm up over time.
You’re doing the right thing and giving them time. Luna is still recovering from her loss and isn’t quite ready to let someone in. In her world she’s going through the same struggles you were as you were thinking about whether or not to get another dog. Hopefully soon they will be best buds. I’m sure for you. It was a really hard decision. I recall that for our family when we lost our first golden retriever and the decision to get a second. Thank you for opening up your heart to a sweet dog who has been through a lot as well.
So happy for you, Sasha! As a former dog owner who had his heart broken when my pup passed on, we just dog sit now for our fix. Most of the people in our area with dogs seem to find them at shelters. So we sit a lot of rescue dogs. It is pretty easy to know which pups are rescues. They suffer PTSD and are shy / scared / jumpy. But they also love the heck out of you for taking them away from their situation, even as a sitter. We love to love the dogs we sit and they return the favor. I know you will really enjoy your new friend.
Buddy is so cute! I had a cat named Buddy for 10 years. Very friendly. With a name like Buddy, of course they are friendly. Hope it works out with Luna.
We have two lovely rescue dogs, Stella and Ruby and one cat Abby, who owns us all. We know your story of heartbeak, and we're happy to hear you have another soul to love.
For dogs who look relatively similar, they are a funny "odd couple" - the picture of the two of them out for their walk is really funny! Buddy the optimist in the lead, his posture and attitude very forward-looking and positive, and Luna behind. Everything about her is saying: "I'm not convinced." We have had so many new animal introductions in our house through the years, and it almost always starts out this way (unless both are puppies or at least neither has lived at the house for too long before the other arrives). And, it almost always turns out with everyone being old friends in the end. Good luck to you and Luna and Buddy, and God bless you for making a place for both of them in your life!
My family and have been through this a bunch of times. The one thing that is 100%, in my experience, is there is no need to get anthropomorphic with the remaining animals. They do not miss animals that have already transcended to the happy hunting grounds. Being the only remaining dog means only one thing: more scratches, snuggling, and food than before. Any animal who comes in threatens paradise (unless the remaining pets do not have their tubes tied).
If one of my dogs is at the vet and the other is left behind, the one that is left behind most definitely mourns and worries and looks for his buddy. After he can't find him, he sits at the wndow and will not budge, not even for special treats, until his pal is home again. Then they both carry on , with the happiest screeches and high pitched barking and howls and yips that you can imagine. Zoomies until they both konk out, and even then , they sleep touching each other.
I rarely comment on posts (I guess that makes me a lurker?) but yours moved me. As a lifelong dog owner--going on 60+ years--I've lost many dogs and each time I've felt that I'd never have another one as special. But through those losses I've come to realize that while it's true that one 'special dog' can never be replaced, another just as special in its own way will come along. Your instinct about Buddy is unquestionably correct, it just takes time.
I'm happy that you found a new dog that needs you. New pets can't completely fill the void left when a beloved pet dies - but caring or a new one that needs you is a great thing.
When I finally got back from Vietnam and the hospital in 1968, I went to a pet store just to look - and a small parrot frantically called to me and acted like he wanted to be let out of his cage. There was nobody around, so I let him out. He was friendly and happy to be on my finger - when the pet shop owner showed up and he was horrified; he said that that particular parrot was a notoriously aggressive biter and he had been returned four times. He was glad to sell him to me for a very low price, and that bird and I were buddies for years. He never bit me, but he was dangerous to dogs, cats, and any fool silly enough to stick a finger in his face - but he never harmed children, puppies or kittens.
Congratulations! He's gonna make you very happy! We're in a similar situation and are looking to get a new pup too! Keep up the great work!!! God Bless You!
Give them time as long as she’s not actively attacking him she will warm up to him. She may not love him like your other dog but she will tolerate him and like him in spots.
That was our experience when we got a 2nd dog 10 years after our first. The older dog tolerated the young pup, but never really became good friends. The age difference is a big factor. Young puppies have a lot more energy than a 10+ year old dog. They are just at different places in life. I saw that Luna had her tail between her legs in the photo. That is a sign of insecurity. But she should warm up over time.
You’re doing the right thing and giving them time. Luna is still recovering from her loss and isn’t quite ready to let someone in. In her world she’s going through the same struggles you were as you were thinking about whether or not to get another dog. Hopefully soon they will be best buds. I’m sure for you. It was a really hard decision. I recall that for our family when we lost our first golden retriever and the decision to get a second. Thank you for opening up your heart to a sweet dog who has been through a lot as well.
Congrats on the new dog Buddy! I'm sure they'll eventually become friends. Sometimes it takes time.
Yay! I have a pup named Buddy, too! Congrats! Luna will begrudgingly be best buds with him soon! ☺️
So happy for you, Sasha! As a former dog owner who had his heart broken when my pup passed on, we just dog sit now for our fix. Most of the people in our area with dogs seem to find them at shelters. So we sit a lot of rescue dogs. It is pretty easy to know which pups are rescues. They suffer PTSD and are shy / scared / jumpy. But they also love the heck out of you for taking them away from their situation, even as a sitter. We love to love the dogs we sit and they return the favor. I know you will really enjoy your new friend.
Kudos to you for adopting a shelter pup!
Hoping that in time, Luna comes around!
Thank you so much, Sasha, for giving this sweet baby a beautiful home. As others have said, give your pups time.💕💕💕💕💕
Buddy is so cute! I had a cat named Buddy for 10 years. Very friendly. With a name like Buddy, of course they are friendly. Hope it works out with Luna.
Luna is grieving Jack. I hope she still is eating.
We have two lovely rescue dogs, Stella and Ruby and one cat Abby, who owns us all. We know your story of heartbeak, and we're happy to hear you have another soul to love.
For dogs who look relatively similar, they are a funny "odd couple" - the picture of the two of them out for their walk is really funny! Buddy the optimist in the lead, his posture and attitude very forward-looking and positive, and Luna behind. Everything about her is saying: "I'm not convinced." We have had so many new animal introductions in our house through the years, and it almost always starts out this way (unless both are puppies or at least neither has lived at the house for too long before the other arrives). And, it almost always turns out with everyone being old friends in the end. Good luck to you and Luna and Buddy, and God bless you for making a place for both of them in your life!
My family and have been through this a bunch of times. The one thing that is 100%, in my experience, is there is no need to get anthropomorphic with the remaining animals. They do not miss animals that have already transcended to the happy hunting grounds. Being the only remaining dog means only one thing: more scratches, snuggling, and food than before. Any animal who comes in threatens paradise (unless the remaining pets do not have their tubes tied).
Sorry for your loss. They are always with us.
If one of my dogs is at the vet and the other is left behind, the one that is left behind most definitely mourns and worries and looks for his buddy. After he can't find him, he sits at the wndow and will not budge, not even for special treats, until his pal is home again. Then they both carry on , with the happiest screeches and high pitched barking and howls and yips that you can imagine. Zoomies until they both konk out, and even then , they sleep touching each other.
I’ve never seen that, but very interesting to hear.
I rarely comment on posts (I guess that makes me a lurker?) but yours moved me. As a lifelong dog owner--going on 60+ years--I've lost many dogs and each time I've felt that I'd never have another one as special. But through those losses I've come to realize that while it's true that one 'special dog' can never be replaced, another just as special in its own way will come along. Your instinct about Buddy is unquestionably correct, it just takes time.
Good job Sweetheart!! Good job staying “heart wide open” in spite of what happens in this thing we call life 💜💜💜😘
I'm happy that you found a new dog that needs you. New pets can't completely fill the void left when a beloved pet dies - but caring or a new one that needs you is a great thing.
When I finally got back from Vietnam and the hospital in 1968, I went to a pet store just to look - and a small parrot frantically called to me and acted like he wanted to be let out of his cage. There was nobody around, so I let him out. He was friendly and happy to be on my finger - when the pet shop owner showed up and he was horrified; he said that that particular parrot was a notoriously aggressive biter and he had been returned four times. He was glad to sell him to me for a very low price, and that bird and I were buddies for years. He never bit me, but he was dangerous to dogs, cats, and any fool silly enough to stick a finger in his face - but he never harmed children, puppies or kittens.
He was exactly what I needed back then.
Congratulations! He's gonna make you very happy! We're in a similar situation and are looking to get a new pup too! Keep up the great work!!! God Bless You!
Just be patient Jack will come around
I think you meant Luna.
Wonderful update - keep us posted on Buddy!