In Touch can exclusively reveal that DeAnna Pappas is back on the market, after breaking up with Jesse Csincsak, whom she fell in love with on The Bachelorette.

“I really felt like I was going to spend the rest of my life with him. I thought he was my fairy-tale ending” DeAnna tells In Touch. “But after the show was over and we settled in to our normal lives, I slowly came to realize that we are two totally different people and it wasn’t going to work out.” But DeAnna, who’s going to donate her engagement ring to charity, isn’t totally turning her back on love. “I still believe in love,” she says. “More than anything, I want to find someone I can spend the rest of my life with,” she adds.